Thursday 27 November 2014

Hearts get broken all the time...



" How do I tell her I don't wanna be here anymore
Nothing she did I just don't feel like the way I used to feel before
Make no mistake I have no problem having you around , I mean you're cool and stuff
I just don't wanna be yours anymore "

In all aspects of life one thing remain constant : Change
Be in in our careers, relationships, finances etc it is inevitable for a degree of change to happen in your life , having to move due to a new job, having to sell your grandfathers old skorokoro to purchase a new model. But one thing that gets all of us is love
Finding it , losing it , love love love
So there I was thinking is there a difference between dating someone and loving someone

Just a thought is it possible you can date someone for a year or so and fall out all love with them but still keep them around because of fear of being alone. A devil you know is better than an angel right ?
It is said there is nothing new under the sun, nothing. All the things we do and we think they haven't been done before were done way before we were born. It is sad when instead of using things , people use other people . So on dating you see we under the impression that we might marry them but we know very well we ain't happy and there is probably no hope. On love when you feel that there is hope you then make a decision that you will love this person and hope for the best ?

If you cannot be with the one you love, love the one you are with. James Baldwin wrote, ‘You think your pain and your heartbreak are unprecedented in the history of the world, but then you read. It was books that taught me that the things that tormented me most were the very things that connected me with all the people who were alive, or who had ever been alive.

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