Human nature

It has come to my attention that if you have person in your life who can makes you happy they can make you sad
Make you smile they can make you mad
Make you laugh they can make you cry
Make you high they can make you low
But the point here is that it is the reality of human nature
It is how we have been conditioned
We were not born this way
Coming to think of it , look at this scenario : If you were born in a christian household chances are you would be christian and you would have christian values and so forth .
If you were born in an islamic household you would be islamic and also in this case you would hold islamic values , the same could be said to a roman catholic , muslim child etc .

I find it strange that we cannot decide these things for ourselves just like if you were born next door you would have had all those toys and went to all those holidays but because the coin fell and left you with the parents you have , your stuck I mean just imagine if you were born next door all those things would have been yours and all the experiences that the neighbour child has would have been yours right ?

Well I think not , every child is born with a specific purpose and non can compare to each other
the most difficult thing in life is acceptance of who and what you are
If you cannot accept who you are and your family structure you are doomed to in most cases repeat the same mistakes as your parents made with you
Every morning when we wake up we have a chance to not only accept where and what we are but we can change it but I repeat the most important step is acceptance , trying to be like everyone else will be you're down fall in life
Only try to excel better than the person you were yesterday

“What I am really saying is that you don’t need to do anything, because if you see yourself in the correct way, you are all as much extraordinary phenomenon of nature as trees, clouds, the patterns in running water, the flickering of fire, the arrangement of the stars, and the form of a galaxy. You are all just like that, and there is nothing wrong with you at all.”
― Alan Watts